http://pregnancyloss.info/2009/06/a-day-for-dads/ Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:18:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://pregnancyloss.info/2009/06/a-day-for-dads/comment-page-1/#comment-1137 Mo Sun, 02 Aug 2009 02:44:58 +0000 http://www.pregnancyloss.info/?p=109#comment-1137 I felt so bad for my husband after I lost our baby earlier this year. He just didn't do anything right in my eyes. I even came up with the brilliant ideathat our marriage wasn't working. In retrospect, he just didn't know what to do. I was a mess (and still am to a point). I accused him of everything from not caring to not wanting children to him thinking it was my fault. I know none of the above are true, I was just an emotional disaster. I know he will put his best "game face" on if we get pregnant again, but how do I keep myself (and him) in check and not delve right back into our previous experience? We've waited about 4 month before trying again (seriously) and I'm afraid that it could be 40 weeks of anxiety for me (and for him, since he has to deal with me). I felt so bad for my husband after I lost our baby earlier this year. He just didn’t do anything right in my eyes. I even came up with the brilliant ideathat our marriage wasn’t working. In retrospect, he just didn’t know what to do. I was a mess (and still am to a point). I accused him of everything from not caring to not wanting children to him thinking it was my fault. I know none of the above are true, I was just an emotional disaster. I know he will put his best “game face” on if we get pregnant again, but how do I keep myself (and him) in check and not delve right back into our previous experience? We’ve waited about 4 month before trying again (seriously) and I’m afraid that it could be 40 weeks of anxiety for me (and for him, since he has to deal with me).

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