There is no perfect partner in grief

Pretty much every single day a mom comes into my private group and tells me her husband is making her feel worse. She is sad. He is not. She misses […]

Sometimes you just have to embrace the sadness

I’ve been crying for about four days straight. Those of you who have gotten an email from me during this time are probably saying WHAT? She was so PERKY when […]

Letters to Readers: On suicide thoughts

I never share private notes written to me, but sometimes I like to post my responses, as often what I say applies to many situations, and a keyword search might […]

As Oct. 15 approaches, a song for you

Remember that on Oct. 15 (a Monday this year) at 7 p.m. your time, grieving families around the world will light a candle for their babies for one hour, completing […]

Another April, another Angelversary for Casey Shay

Sometimes when women arrive at my Facebook group for those currently going through a loss, they ask, “How long until I get over this?” All I can say is, “Fourteen […]