I’m so sorry for your loss. We lost our first child, our daughter, at 20 weeks. I went in for the atanomy scan and instead of calling to say boy or girl, I had to call and say we lost the baby. Then, I had to deliver and everything. I went through all the stages of grief, sometimes more than once. It just depended on the time. One thing that helped me was to think about how I was in different increments of time. At first, it was just getting through the moments, then gradually it got to be longer stretches of time. I still have good days and bad days. It’s been almost a year since we lost her. I know that as we get closer it will get weird and hard again, but I’ll take it moment by moment. It is helpful to talk with others, especially on here, that have been through this. At least for me it was. Sadly, many of us have through this. You will have good days and you will have bad days. Sometimes you will have more bad days than good days, but you will get through.I would search some miscarriage posts or even go to that board and read through some of the posts. When I’m having a bad day, that’s what helps me. Know that we are here thinking about you and praying for you. We are here if you need to talk.
I don’t know if I’m having a miscarriage or not… I missed my period took a test and it came up positive. last night I was having moderate cramping. It wasn’t like menstrual cramps though they were different. I haven’t bled at all. This morning when I woke up, there was some light pink spotting, only like a drop. But there was a clot too. One small clot. That’s it. I’ve also been feeling like a twitching kind of in my lower stomach. I don’t know what to think. I’m scared.
This is my second miscarriage
It was the same as the other time pain cramping but only difference this time is I am losing alot of blood and I am very dizzy my had hurts do I need a DNC this time
I am 6 weeks today. About a week ago I had light pink spotting very very light, mixed with cervical fluid. This lasted a few days. Then one night I woke up with unusual cramp (not painful just different) and when I wiped there was bright red blood when I wiped. This lasted for about two days, bright red blood very little when I wiped and unusual cramping. Yesterday there was nothing and today I had a small amount of brown blood when I wiped, no cramps.
I went in for HCG level on Friday and I go back tomorrow. My doctor’s office seems so insensitive. I get that they see this thing all the time but they would not talk through any possibilities of what’s going on, not even miscarriage. I can’t function, it’s more he not knowing than anything else.
Looking for information, support, answers, anything I guess. I know the hcg tests will be very telling but…
Deanna
I’m so sorry for your loss. We lost our first child, our daughter, at 20 weeks. I went in for the atanomy scan and instead of calling to say boy or girl, I had to call and say we lost the baby. Then, I had to deliver and everything. I went through all the stages of grief, sometimes more than once. It just depended on the time. One thing that helped me was to think about how I was in different increments of time. At first, it was just getting through the moments, then gradually it got to be longer stretches of time. I still have good days and bad days. It’s been almost a year since we lost her. I know that as we get closer it will get weird and hard again, but I’ll take it moment by moment. It is helpful to talk with others, especially on here, that have been through this. At least for me it was. Sadly, many of us have through this. You will have good days and you will have bad days. Sometimes you will have more bad days than good days, but you will get through.I would search some miscarriage posts or even go to that board and read through some of the posts. When I’m having a bad day, that’s what helps me. Know that we are here thinking about you and praying for you. We are here if you need to talk.
I don’t know if I’m having a miscarriage or not… I missed my period took a test and it came up positive. last night I was having moderate cramping. It wasn’t like menstrual cramps though they were different. I haven’t bled at all. This morning when I woke up, there was some light pink spotting, only like a drop. But there was a clot too. One small clot. That’s it. I’ve also been feeling like a twitching kind of in my lower stomach. I don’t know what to think. I’m scared.
Iv been cramping for almost a week now .mood swings and a older that smells like blood but no blood.chest soreness head acks and gas.
This is my second miscarriage
It was the same as the other time pain cramping but only difference this time is I am losing alot of blood and I am very dizzy my had hurts do I need a DNC this time
I am 6 weeks today. About a week ago I had light pink spotting very very light, mixed with cervical fluid. This lasted a few days. Then one night I woke up with unusual cramp (not painful just different) and when I wiped there was bright red blood when I wiped. This lasted for about two days, bright red blood very little when I wiped and unusual cramping. Yesterday there was nothing and today I had a small amount of brown blood when I wiped, no cramps.
I went in for HCG level on Friday and I go back tomorrow. My doctor’s office seems so insensitive. I get that they see this thing all the time but they would not talk through any possibilities of what’s going on, not even miscarriage. I can’t function, it’s more he not knowing than anything else.
Looking for information, support, answers, anything I guess. I know the hcg tests will be very telling but…