I feel despair. It is natural to feel despair and incredible, debilitating sadness. You may not want to get out of bed, talk to anyone, eat, or even breathe. You […]
Family
Telling friends and family about your miscarriage

I remember the moment I called my parents as if it were this morning. We were supposed to have found out the sex of the baby, but instead we learned […]
15 Years Since Casey Died, and a New Outreach!
One of my life’s works it to keep Casey close by expanding my reach to families who have lost a baby. It’s hard to imagine that this year, Casey would […]
There is no perfect partner in grief
Pretty much every single day a mom comes into my private group and tells me her husband is making her feel worse. She is sad. He is not. She misses […]
Want to get through to your friends about baby loss? THIS is your chance.
I know many of you are hurting over family, friends, or coworkers who downplay the loss of your baby. They are not intending to hurt you, but they somehow think […]
Blog Spotlight: Honoring Our Angels
Was YOUR family 100% supportive after your loss? Did you ignore the things they said or did you speak up? I’m guessing you stayed quiet. I got a chance to […]
Not So Well Wishers
How many of you have heard these phrases? It probably would have been deformed. Thank goodness you were only in your first trimester. It’s not like it was a real […]